Friday, May 19, 2006

The #1 question I get asked lately, "What's Married Life Like?"


My Answer:

Life is so much better when you have a partner to live it with. The tough times aren't so tough because now you only have to carry half of the burden and the good times are twice as grand when there are two hearts being fullfilled and overflowing!

The best friend the universe has to offer! It's all in finding "the one"....it's the only way to really experience life in the fullest! :) So glad I spent so much time being single and finding out who I am.....so I could be ready to give 100% of who I am to my husband! Nothing in our past matters anymore, there is only faith in tomorrow!

Together, we take on whatever life has to throw at us...knowing, that if all shit hits the fan....we still have eachother in a sappy FOREVER kind of way! ;)
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Thursday, May 18, 2006

It has taken me 24yrs. to realize that I Am Who I Am, and damit I Rock! I don't need the piercings anymore, the hair dye with the dramatic haircut, I kind of have to keep my tattoos but they mean alot to me....very personal...so that is OK. I don't need to listen to the one type of music, to read certain books or any books at all, play a musical instrument my friends will dig, get into deep philosophical debates to prove how Not Shallow I am, I can grow up leave that crap behind and not be OLD, not be OUT OF TOUCH, or lose my APPEAL.....I still respect those who hold such things close and still need them to identify themselves, but I just feel that Sarah is a good person to be at this stage in life and I'm gonna focus on that instead! I don't want to limit myself by trying to stay true to a solid self-identity...it should change and evolve as time goes on! I need to change and evolve as time goes on! I will change and evolve as time goes on! I Am Who I Am...that will change and that will be OK!

(thank you for reading another chaper of Sarah's self-help blog series, we hope you enjoyed today's reading...LOL)
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Monday, May 15, 2006

ACT A FOOL

I flew back to Kentucky for my best friend Becca's birthday and in doing so temporarily lost my mind, forgot my age, and over indulged myself silly! I really needed this trip! I really miss my very close friends and I LOVED being able to recreate those college days...even if it was only for a night! With all this work getting my Real Estate Lic. and Life in general this was a much needed break from reality! Ahhhhh......

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It took me awhile too see that the emptiness and being unfullfilled isn't going to be fixed by a new purse, a new car, a new puppy, a new career, that week vaction at the beach to get away, a new hobby - something I can really get into and relieve stress, or maybe working out more and getting into shape......Sounded good and one by one as I got these things nothing changed......I finally get it.....As long as my life is centered around ME I will never be happy, I will never feel fullfilled, because I don't have the power to create my world and create my happiness no matter how great or smart I think I am......Wow, God must really be laughing at me lately! I need God back in my life. I need to give Him back the Pilot seat and scoot on over to the co-pilot seat and start enjoying life again! My heart is full, when my faith is strong! Thank you God!
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I'm hanging up fire investigation to be a real estate agent. I know it sounds crazy. You can join with my family in asking, "why are you gonna do something that doesn't let you use your college degree?"

Making a difference in someone's life, being your own boss (unlike the last boss I had...I don't think this one will be Sexist), no limit to the amount of money I can make, no more being tied to a desk from 9 to 5, freedom to have a life outside of work, the North Carolina (esp. Raleigh) real estate market is HOTT, HOTT, HOTT ....just to name a few.

Just gotta pass this state exam I am taking on Monday the 22nd. I am so lucky to have such a supportive husband (in every since of the word) because without him I could have never ventured into this career investment/journey! I am very excited to start this new chapter in my life! Wish me luck!
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